How not to quarrel in the journey: 8 secrets of joint vacation
According to psychologists, journey together — the more the test, which not many people can withstand a couple. The argument can be any little thing: the wrong place in the plane, a delay or flight delay, but simply banal fatigue, — and then deep resentment and misunderstanding. In order not to replenish the sad statistics, as well as to prevent your vacation from being hopelessly spoiled, pay attention to these tips that will help you overcome difficulties and maintain relationships.
Plan your budget in advance
Even before you start buying tickets and looking for hotels, agree on how much you are willing to spend on the trip, whether it is your total budget or everyone spends their money. Also determine the daily amount for which you plan to live. That then did not get an unpleasant situation when you were counting on one thing, and your partner suddenly decided to save.
Find time for yourself
Joint vacation does not mean that you will spend all 24 hours together. Even if you are very in love with each other, you need to agree on certain days (or hours) that you will devote only to yourself. It does not matter, it will be shopping, walking around the city, visiting some sights or reading your favorite book in the Park. If everyone has enough free time, it will only benefit your relationship.
Do not try to see all the sights on the first evening
A common mistake of many travelers, when they are one trip (or even one evening) trying to cover the maximum: and the sea, and museums, and shopping, and sightseeing. As a result, this leads to the fact that both partners are tired and begin to break on each other. Remember the Golden rule: less is better.
Leave time for fun
Often remember that you went on vacation to have fun. So drop all the sad thoughts and leave the showdown for later. Enjoy your stay and each other. Imagine that you have a honeymoon, and behave accordingly. And then, perhaps, by the time you get home, you will have a new look at your partner and your relationship.
Take only hand Luggage
Think about it, do you really want to carry around with a heavy suitcase just because there are several sets of clothes that you want to walk? In fact, you will feel much more comfortable and confident if you have a small suitcase and a compact backpack. Then you will not depend on the Luggage storage, if you suddenly decide to slightly change the route and go to another city.
Find out what brings discomfort to your chosen one
For example, if you can not imagine life without planes, and your lover distorts from one mention of the flights, then maybe you should reconsider your routes and agree in advance on how you will get to the place of rest. Perhaps you will like a romantic trip by train or, say, a sea cruise on the Mediterranean sea, around Europe. The main thing is that you two have the same pleasure.
Be able to negotiate with each other
Do not forget that not only you have a vacation, but also your second half, so you should not saw your chosen one or, even worse, walk next to him with such a person, as if you are not interested in anything in this life. Learn to yield to each other, and then you will see: your journey will be even better than you originally planned.
Overcome difficulties together
Troubles happen to everyone, so do not despair and fall into depression. In addition, together you will be easier to cope with any problem, and, as psychologists say, the search for solutions only strengthens the relationship in the pair and gives you the opportunity to look at the person in a new way (how he behaves in a stressful situation, for example).